Encounter with Married man years ago have made me Lost Trust in Men [link]
"I was seen as beautiful in my younger days. We girls want to be obedient to our parents. Sometime parents doesn't understand and sometimes outsider create problems in the family."
Guilt by association fallacy.
1)The bank robber wore a blue shirt.
2) The current Prime Minister of Singapore wore a blue shirt during election campaigning last year.
3) Therefore the Prime Minister of Singapore is the bank robber...
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Likewise, some married men straying from their wives doesn't mean that all married men stray... in any case, you had self declared yourself "beautiful in my younger days"- you should have taken much more ownership responsibility for your own beauty. A nuclear powered aircraft carrier needs a more responsible captain than the sampan- a rower, since the consequence of any accident involving the carrier is so much more disastrous. For all you know, the wives of these men whom you have tempted are blaming and cursing at you for destroying their families. It usually takes 2 hands to clap, making you equally culpable, you are accomplice to the act; you are a temptress and beauty was wasted on lust.
My suggestion about meeting with good man of your wishes is to do some charity; marred men with good jobs and families most likely do not qualify for your charity you perform, so you will surely avoid them.
There is no free meal in this world, any relationship with a married man ALWAYS comes with conditions, many too painful to bear.
You can train yourself up by performing acts of charity. The reason why the communist political system of leadership (predicated on dictatorialism) fell was due much to to people/ the electorate viewing their leaders as dictators and untrustworthy men. By performing acts of genuine charity on the poorest that you see, your life shall be rooted in deepest reality.
Meet up with some other like minded guy performing a similar charity and both your lives shall for life be rooted in reality (regardless whether you form a relationship, private, professional/ otherwise)- insofar that your charity is real.
Humans are dominant depending on ideology. Whilst a single human wouldn't survive long in the wild, the optimal lifespan of a human is achieved by living as societies where wisdom prevails and love and charity abound. Living as a big family, humans thrive- in so far that they live morally and with the utmost respect for God.
But where moral decadence prevails, the wars within humanity have always been most bloody- where in the midst of power struggles, many humans senselessly die.
A society built on love and charity is a beacon of light to the world where pilgrims from all quarters congregate in study, where knowledge is improved and love is multiplied.
Heaven on Earth is not an impossibility, just so long as we try.
Have you done your part for the world today?
Otherwise, as the bible says:
Matthew 7:3-5 [link]
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. ..."
Matthew 5:14-16[link]
14 “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
All the best, I hope that your life turns out just fine,
Bic_Cherry@yahoo.com.sg
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